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Be assured our Online Supervision and Counselling is absolutely confidential providing you a totally private opportunity for clearing discussion and disclosure.
Understanding Ice berg theory. 

Upon the establishment of a therapeutic relationship clients progressively develop trust & confidence to disclose those private, occasionally extremely personal matters which often serve to be or lead into exposing the underlying,
unseen causes of concern & imbalance. 

Emotional healing happens through the "expressed passing" of these feelings with the associated release of the emotional energy in a safe supported, supervised environment. With On-line sessions this confidentiallty is further reinforced by the additional safety of your own home, without fear of condemnation or criticism.

Such personal liberation is of it's self an amazing and powerful experience.
Life changing personal experience, occur in this letting go to experience the joy filling release like never before.

At this point, you the client feel as though you are actually 'being heard', appreciated and understood maybe
in many instances ........for the very first time.

It is here in this "opening up", released by the expressed disclosures from the actual “letting go”,
where real healing happens.


There is another significant emotional constraint for all of us lying in the “family environs” and
households in which we were raised.

Too often raised in violent and or dysfunctional to even manupilative environments where happiness
may have been all about looking forward to the day when you could leave home.

Regularly we hear clients declare that they simply cannot criticise their parents.
Clients express their ingrained sense of shame and guilt.

They tell us they just must not nor
cannot, speak about or be disloyal to their parents, even though the parents were not there for them as children, were cruel manipulators, or violent drunks who assaulted them, other siblings
and their Mother and or their Father. ("But they did as good as they could for us!!)

Even so, given all of that, some now unconscious supressed part of the child lingers in waiting. 
Waiting, wanting acceptance, holding a deep longing ungratified sense for their Father or Mother's love and acceptance.
That endless aching need which Bette Midler made famous with her version of "The Rose" with love lying as a seed beneath the winter snow.

It seems that  parents who were emotional unavailable have never modelled emotional sensitivity,
that very absence may have created this every present sense of wanting.
That endless aching need.
Setting up the love hate psychosis which too often traps clients in
virtually identical dysfunctional relationships, the actual practice of which they unintentionally inherited from their family of origin.
Here we find the potential recurrence of the Electra and Oedipus complex conditioning which is not
set in stone, but interesting neverthe less.

During those unpleasant years the psyche’s ability to resist and tolerate emotional discomfort
was reinforced to an entirely dysfunctional degree of "unconsciousness".
Set into a place where relief was sought by numbing the emotional chasm with avoidance
behaviour, practices such as extremes of alcohol, gambling, drugs, pornography, sexual obsession,
food, church, retail therapy or many other avenues of avoidance.

Absolutely evident in modern day "Lonely Heart Clubs" for online relationship connection, seeking company & bed mates too.

It is during these very early days mostly before the age of seven (7) when the basic personality characteristic
and habits where ingrained, where our attitudes for life’s rights & wrongs 
became ingrained & conditioned us.

From this conditioning we grew to accept, deny or reject certain expressions of behaviour
as being acceptable or not acceptable.


By accessing this online facility for Supervision and or Counselling  and working with
committed professional Supervisors & Counsellors from the privacy of your own home computer,
mobile phone or work office you maybe assured and guaranteed of support.  


Work place expectations and public demand ensure that the service provider 'at the coal face' is
caught as the meat in the sandwich between supply of the service and public demand for its
delivery. Constant daily performance pressure is upon these people who also experience other
difficulties in daily life and family living, which must be taken into consideration and supported.

More so than ever before as the Digital transition is seeing many individuals working from home office isolation.


This area of work where “the rubber meets the road” is testing for all concerned and for this
reason employers must be aware of the essential need to supply Supervision to their staff to
avoid inevitable conditions of “BURN OUT” by providing regular Supervision to managers, 
staff and employees.

In this stress filled time of financial constraints and Ecological Anxiety all people across the entire world and the work
force are feeling extra pressure.

On Line Supervision and Counselling.

Guaranteed Assurance of Ethical Service.
Industry compliance, confidentiality, protection and best practice is assured for
Supervisees and Counsellors utilising our services under the
Australian Counselling Association Code of Ethics.

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