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| ON LINE SUPERVISION & COUNSELLING THERAPY - Page 2 |
Page 2 of 2 ON THE QUIET: Be assured our Online Supervision and Counselling is absolutely confidential providing you a totally private opportunity for clearing discussion and disclosure.  Understanding Ice berg theory. Upon the establishment of a therapeutic relationship clients progressively develop trust & confidence to disclose those private, occasionally extremely personal matters which often serve to be or lead into exposing the underlying, unseen causes of concern & imbalance. Emotional healing happens through the "expressed passing" of these feelings with the associated release of the emotional energy in a safe supported, supervised environment. With On-line sessions this confidentiallty is further reinforced by the additional safety of your own home, without fear of condemnation or criticism. Such personal liberation is of it's self an amazing and powerful experience. Life changing personal experience, occur in this letting go to experience the joy filling release like never before. At this point, you the client feel as though you are actually 'being heard', appreciated and understood maybe in many instances ........for the very first time. It is here in this "opening up", released by the expressed disclosures from the actual “letting go”, where real healing happens. THE FAMILY There is another significant emotional constraint for all of us lying in the “family environs” and households in which we were raised. Too often raised in violent and or dysfunctional to even manupilative environments where happiness may have been all about looking forward to the day when you could leave home. Regularly we hear clients declare that they simply cannot criticise their parents. Clients express their ingrained sense of shame and guilt. They tell us they just must not nor cannot, speak about or be disloyal to their parents, even though the parents were not there for them as children, were cruel manipulators, or violent drunks who assaulted them, other siblings and their Mother and or their Father. ("But they did as good as they could for us!!) Even so, given all of that, some now unconscious supressed part of the child lingers in waiting. Waiting, wanting acceptance, holding a deep longing ungratified sense for their Father or Mother's love and acceptance. That endless aching need which Bette Midler made famous with her version of "The Rose" with love lying as a seed beneath the winter snow. It seems that parents who were emotional unavailable have never modelled emotional sensitivity, that very absence may have created this every present sense of wanting. That endless aching need. Setting up the love hate psychosis which too often traps clients in virtually identical dysfunctional relationships, the actual practice of which they unintentionally inherited from their family of origin. Here we find the potential recurrence of the Electra and Oedipus complex conditioning which is not set in stone, but interesting neverthe less. During those unpleasant years the psyche’s ability to resist and tolerate emotional discomfort was reinforced to an entirely dysfunctional degree of "unconsciousness". Set into a place where relief was sought by numbing the emotional chasm with avoidance behaviour, practices such as extremes of alcohol, gambling, drugs, pornography, sexual obsession, food, church, retail therapy or many other avenues of avoidance. Absolutely evident in modern day "Lonely Heart Clubs" for online relationship connection, seeking company & bed mates too. FIRST SEVEN YEARS It is during these very early days mostly before the age of seven (7) when the basic personality characteristic and habits where ingrained, where our attitudes for life’s rights & wrongs became ingrained & conditioned us. From this conditioning we grew to accept, deny or reject certain expressions of behaviour as being acceptable or not acceptable. HERE NOW IS A TIME FOR YOU. By accessing this online facility for Supervision and or Counselling and working with committed professional Supervisors & Counsellors from the privacy of your own home computer, mobile phone or work office you maybe assured and guaranteed of support. SUPERVISION IS FOR ONE & ALL Work place expectations and public demand ensure that the service provider 'at the coal face' is caught as the meat in the sandwich between supply of the service and public demand for its delivery. Constant daily performance pressure is upon these people who also experience other difficulties in daily life and family living, which must be taken into consideration and supported. More so than ever before as the Digital transition is seeing many individuals working from home office isolation. AVOIDING BURN OUT. This area of work where “the rubber meets the road” is testing for all concerned and for this reason employers must be aware of the essential need to supply Supervision to their staff to avoid inevitable conditions of “BURN OUT” by providing regular Supervision to managers, staff and employees. In this stress filled time of financial constraints and Ecological Anxiety all people across the entire world and the work force are feeling extra pressure. On Line Supervision and Counselling. Guaranteed Assurance of Ethical Service. Industry compliance, confidentiality, protection and best practice is assured for Supervisees and Counsellors utilising our services under the Australian Counselling Association Code of Ethics. Mail either Carol or Rod at: Further Information at: This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . "If we change the way we look at things the things we look at change"  About Relationship Counselling. Crisis callers seeking to arrange early appointments. This e-mail address is being protected from spambots. You need JavaScript enabled to view it . |
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